In 2008, my Becky* and I made a "To Do" list that yielded momentous consequences... as our To Do lists often do.
Everything on 2008's To Do is checked off in bold red, green, and gold Sharpies (with minor** slip ups on #3 and #6 from time to time), inside, outside, and in the near vicinity of the check boxes... spared no expense.
Now, in 2010, with two years behind me, and many lessons learned, I feel there are amendments to be made. Some things change, while others remain the same.
Eternal truths do exist after all.
For your enjoyment... and my records... I would like the two lists to mark the start of a new decade for me, you, and anybody else that cares to sing along.***
TO DO
2008
- Cut all unnecessary ties... ie: jobs, people, commitments, etc.
- Insist on quality health and life. Apply also to: body, friendships, business, cars, family, etc.
- Avoid bad, drunk boys.
- Pack up my life.
- Remain confident in decisions.
- Remain logical in assessing situations.
- Patience.
- Speak openly and honestly with friends AND enemies.
- Value humorous viewpoints over all else.
- Be less hypercritical... see also: hypocritical.
- Be thankful... we are blessed.
- Be safe, not sorry.
- Work HARD to obtain what you want and need.
- Back yo shit up!
- Don't get lost!
- Remember... It's going to be okay. (Repeat as needed.)
TO DO
2010
- Make some necessary ties... ie: professional, unprofessional, safety release knots, etc.
- Insist on living sustainably. Apply to: body, friendships, loveships, family, business, recreation, etc.
- Avoid boys. Some exceptions for men apply.
- Unpack my life.
- Make logical decisions.
- Patience.
- More patience.
- Speak your truth.
- Value humorous viewpoints over all else.
- Be critical... see also: analytical.
- Be happy... everything is working out perfectly.
- Practice reckless abandon.
- Create art.
- Take snapshots.
- Smell the roses.
- Remember... it's totally okay. (Repeat as needed... alternate with deep breathing.)
AND THEY'RE OFF!
Happy New Years.
* (For a definition of a Becky... visit the 'blarcabulary' section of my website.) blarvolution.com
** All depends on your definition of minor.
*** Which list suits you best?